Current:Home > Contact50 Cent posted about a 'year of abstinence.' Voluntary celibacy is a very real trend. -ProfitPioneers Hub
50 Cent posted about a 'year of abstinence.' Voluntary celibacy is a very real trend.
View
Date:2025-04-19 14:30:06
50 Cent claimed in a recent Instagram post that he's "practicing abstinence" – which many have taken as him saying he's not having sex, specifically.
"My new idea is so big, I don’t have time to be distracted I’m practicing abstinence, I have been meditating and focusing on my goals," he wrote earlier this week on the social platform. "I hope this New Year helps you excel to the next level."
Of course, he could be talking about something else or using this as a marketing ploy to promote a product. Let's not forget how Snoop Dogg caused a similar hubbub when he said he was quitting smoking. USA TODAY has reached out to reps for 50 Cent for more information.
Regardless, voluntary celibacy is very much a trend, despite society's emphasis on sex as some kind of threshold to cross. Or that if you're not having sex, you're somehow not enjoying or experiencing life to its fullest or most pleasurable.
In reality, choosing boundaries can be empowering for those who want to exhibit agency over their bodies and relationships. Sexual empowerment advocate and writer Amanda McCracken explains, "There's just as much power in saying no as yes."
Why some people choose to not have sex
Sex researcher Candice Hargons previously told USA TODAY there are many known benefits of a healthy sex life. But saying no can also offer similar perks. Some may opt for abstinence because they're fed up with hookup culture and crave an emotional connection. Others may use the opportunity for mindfulness and reflection.
"The pros of celibacy can include the ability to build a romantic relationship with someone without the pressure of sex, the ability to focus on other important parts more readily, and even spiritual growth and alignment for one with religious values," says Hargons, an associate professor of counseling psychology at the University of Kentucky.
Sex experts clarify there's no "right or wrong" way to be abstinent. McCracken, for example, explained she dated and was "intimate" with numerous men during an abstinence journey of her own, but she refrained from sex. This experience led her to find a "healthy and irreplaceable" romance with her husband.
"We learned to have intimacy and build that connection without sexual intercourse," she says, adding that it allowed them to better "listen to each other and be present and aware of each other's needs."
Celibacy not 'inherently better or worse'
When abstinence is a choice, it "can really be an amazing experience," according to Cate Mackenzie, a psychosexual therapist and couples counselor. Just as it's OK to want casual hookups, it can also empowering to remove yourself from a culture that pressures people to be sexually active.
But Hargons emphasized that shaming individuals into abstinence with religious purity culture can have adverse effects, including ignorance about safe sex as well as sexual trauma.
DC is buzzing about a Senate sex scandalWhat it says about the way we discuss gay sex.
Of course, healthy sexuality looks different for everyone, and no preference is superior. And if you do choose to have sex, there isn't a magical perfect cadence for every relationship.
"Celibacy isn't an inherently better or worse sexual option than other options," Hargons says. "Sexual wellness and empowerment is about deciding what works for you and your partner… as long as the root of the abstinence isn't shame or guilt."
Contributing: Jenna Ryu
What do rage rooms have to do with sex?A whole lot, it turns out.
veryGood! (65735)
Related
- Opinion: Gianni Infantino, FIFA sell souls and 2034 World Cup for Saudi Arabia's billions
- Candace Cameron Bure Reveals How She “Almost Died” on Set of Fuller House Series
- Bill allowing parents to be fined for child’s criminal offenses heads to Tennessee governor
- Republican candidates vying for Indiana governor to take debate stage
- Skins Game to make return to Thanksgiving week with a modern look
- Dairy from a galaxy far, far away: Blue milk from 'Star Wars' hits shelves ahead of May the 4th
- Yikes! Your blood sugar crashed. Here's how to avoid that again.
- The Best Under-the-Radar, Eco-Friendly Fashion & Beauty Brands that You Need to Know
- Why we love Bear Pond Books, a ski town bookstore with a French bulldog 'Staff Pup'
- Biden will send Ukraine air defense weapons, artillery once Senate approves, Zelenskyy says
Ranking
- Plunge Into These Olympic Artistic Swimmers’ Hair and Makeup Secrets
- Celebrity designer faces prison for smuggling crocodile handbags
- Orlando Magic guard Jalen Suggs helped off with left knee injury in Game 2 against Cavaliers
- Wall Street is looking to Tesla’s earnings for clues to Musk’s plan to restore company’s wild growth
- From family road trips to travel woes: Americans are navigating skyrocketing holiday costs
- Yikes! Your blood sugar crashed. Here's how to avoid that again.
- Internet providers roll out broadband nutrition labels for consumers
- Prince Louis Is All Grown Up in Royally Sweet 6th Birthday Portrait
Recommendation
Olympic disqualification of gold medal hopeful exposes 'dark side' of women's wrestling
Utah school district addresses rumors of furries 'biting,' 'licking,' reports say
Why Chris Pratt and Katherine Schwarzenegger Are Facing Backlash Over Demolishing a Los Angeles Home
More pandas are coming to the US. This time to San Francisco, the first time since 1985
Which apps offer encrypted messaging? How to switch and what to know after feds’ warning
Scottie Scheffler claims RBC Heritage title, wins for fourth time in last five tournaments
Maui officials push back on some details in Hawaii attorney general report on deadly wildfire
John Travolta Reveals His Kids' Honest Reaction to His Movies